Pulse VIP Blogger Kemi Taiwo brings the second part of the 12 reasons women cheat on their men.
Last week, we talked about the top reasons men cheat on their women. That was the first part anyway. This week brings us to the conclusion of the episode.
Sit back, relax and enjoy.
7. Feeling under-appreciated:
When you are in a relationship, you like to please your man. Cooking a romantic dinner, buying sexy lingerie, and listening with your heart, are just a few ways you may show your love and appreciation.
So what happens when you don’t hear “thank you, please or I love you?” Holidays and birthdays come and you don’t receive anything meaningful, nothing at all, not even a verbal acknowledgement.
We all have thresholds, and once yours is reached, you may decide to act on a “thank you, please, or I love you” coming from another direction. Let your man know he may lose you if he continues to take you for granted.
He doesn’t spray on that good smelling cologne anymore, his clothing is wrinkled, stained or way out-of-date. When he comes home from work (assuming he has a job), it’s the same old thing; “what’s for dinner”?
When the weekend comes, he says he’s tired and just wants to relax at home, or go out to the same sports bar you go every weekend. The routine is the same over and over again. You are no longer on the same page. You barely have anything in common. You are feeling emotionally distant from him.
You find yourself looking at other prospects and fantasize about being with someone else.
You begin to feel excited (something you haven’t felt in “forever”) just thinking about it. There are many ways to spice up an old, tired relationship. Boredom is something that can be resolved with a little, or sometimes a moderate amount of effort.
It requires both of you introducing new ideas and behaviors, and some spontaneity. Be sure of what you want.
9. High Libido
Although this doesn’t necessarily mean she is not getting good sex, but she doesn’t get the sex as at the times she wants it. Women with libidos higher than that of their spouse tend to be promiscuous.
10. Penis size of her man and usage
When the penis size of her man is relatively small to what she wants and the man in question does not know how to use the small penis to get a big sexual results, a woman could be tempted to look for sexual satisfaction outside.
In fact, when the penis size is too big and rather than the woman enjoying sex, it is usually pain she goes through while having sex with her man, this can make her withdraw from the man totally and get a penis size that suits her.
Even when the penis of a man is that huge, there are ways you can use it wisely without hurting your woman.
This is mainly for the married couples, where couples are frustrated from being married for years and not having a child due to low sperm count or several other factors. Here, both parties are bound to cheat on themselves to check who is not fit to bear the child.
12. Weak or soft erection
Some women are not really the patient type and that is why men have to stay away from sex drive killers. When your woman has desires for sex and your erection is not strong enough to make her feel you inside her, she could be forced to seek that satisfaction with someone else.
Kemi Taiwo is a sex, relationship and family expert. She is a lead relationship counselor at madamfelicia.org, a site that deals with relationship, sex and family development.