What would you do if you hear that your spouse has been visiting a brothel?

isaac

March 20, 2015 8:48 AM

On Morning Teaser today, a reader wants some advice on what she should as her husband has started visiting prostitutes.

When you say "I'm fine" people tend to get the impression that you aren't being honest about your feelings

"Dear Pulse,

I am Chinwe Nze and I am a married mother of three lovely children. I have been married to my husband for the past 10 years and I dare say that our marriage has been blissful and interesting.

But in the past few months, there has been some tough moments that has made me question myself if I want to continue in the marriage.

The problem is that my husband has changed so much I even wonder if he is the same man I loved and got married to.

He is now behaving like a teenager, keeping late nights, or some nights not coming home at all. He hardly touches me these days, always complaining of being tired and stressed.

But the worst of all of these is that he has started cheating on me. I know this because I have come across some love messages on his phones, though I have kept it to myself.

But the one that is tearing me apart is when a close friend of mine told me she has been seeing my husband coming in and out of a brothel on their street. My friend says she has seen my husband on not more than five occasions, most times with the that stay in the brothel.

I am confused and do not know what to do? Should I confront my husband?

Chinwe,

Lagos."

Dear readers, what advice do you have for Chinwe on Morning Teaser today?

isaac