Why is it hard to fall in love again after a breakup?

Hi. I'm really confused about being in a relationship. I'm 21 and I ended my last relationship a year ago.

Ever since then I've lost the vibe to search for love again as no lady seems to impress me.

I'm 6'2, dark & possess an athletic figure but every lady I try to talk to can't seem to believe I'm single.

This could be due to my looks or body build: so it's been tiring to find love again. I need your advice and help. Thanks.__________

Dear reader,

If no one seems good enough, it means you have not met the right one yet; not that she does not exist.

And obviously, at 21, you still have some time to wait for the perfect one. If the real deal is what you are looking forward to and not just something random and experimental, then you just have to wait.

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While waiting, ensure to have series of introspection where you check out habits and traits about yourself that women might not like and ensure to weed each and every one of them out.

If you seek perfection, the least you can do is to be perfect or pretty close to it yourself.

I still strongly believe that when the time comes – and it’ll be soon enough - the real deal will come and she won’t bother about your body build or doubt your singleness.

Cheers to the happy days ahead.__________Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?

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