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Wedding Planning See worst pieces of advice ever given to brides

Find out the worst pieces of advice received by brides from their friends and family.

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While planning for a wedding, it is a common practice for friends and family to offer loads of wedding planning advice to brides in order for them to stay organized, cut costs , but sometimes, they offer really bad ones.

The below are five of the worst wedding planning suggestions received by white brides.

  1. "'Don't have an open bar.' That was my mom's advice to cut costs," says a woman. "My friends are still griping about it! Yes, shame on them. But at the same time, I'd gladly give $800 more now to get them to shut up about how limited our alcohol selection was, and what they had to pay to enjoy themselves."
  2. "My mom convinced me I didn't need a wedding planner, despite the fact that I was planning a hometown wedding from my new city, which was a four-hour flight or 16-hour drive away," says another former bride. "So, instead, I spent as much money in trips home — and who knows what incalculable costs to my sanity — getting home to do the things I could have employed a planner to do, when I could have spent that same chunk of change on a planner who could have done it for me."
  3. "When my sister heard my disappointment in not being able to afford our dream wedding, she encouraged us to take out a loan," says one woman. "She reasoned we'd only have this one chance, so we should make it perfect, no matter the cost. I listened, and we're still paying that loan off. It's been two years."
  4. "I was told to send invitations to co-workers I didn't actually want at my wedding because, 'you don't want to offend people you see every day,'" says one bride. 'Which, yes, I get the sentiment. But I was also told those people likely wouldn't show up. They did. And then I was stuck with them at work and at my wedding!"
  5. "A friend told me, 'It's your wedding day and that means it's all about you,'" says one former bride. "While I can see where she's coming from, hearing that just rubbed me the wrong way. Our wedding day was a celebration, and I wanted to make sure my guests and family enjoyed themselves, too. It seemed selfish to only care about myself!"

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