L.O.V.E the four letter word that is the most complex word in the world.
We sometimes confuse and focus our ideas of love on material things thereby making us have unrealistic expectations about everything relationship related.
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IN-Q, a spoken word poet narrates what love should be; using an 85-year-old male persona who fell in love when his body was weaker and could not do all the things he 'termed' important in a relationship during his youthful days.
The poet talked about the good, bad and ugly sides of love; He placed value on the simplest things in relationships like 'holding hands and laughing at each others jokes.
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And no... He did not sweep the negatives under the bus, he talked about how saggy the significant other would become, how obstacles like illness would come between you two.
“Hold her head close like death isn’t chasing us… planning on erasing us. And replacing us with better versions of us. Reshaping us, remaking us, then recreating us with new identities so we can make new memories.”
Now this is what love means! Watch the video above and do a list of what you would like to incorporate into your relationship or marriage.