"How do I tell her I slept with her sister?"
This is a typical situation of when a man's past comes back to haunt him. But what does he do next: tell the truth and settle for a lie?
I am confused right now. I did some thing wrong wrong years ago and it has come to haunt me now. Im in love with my girlfriend of three months. Shes an amazing human being. Shes my angel and I love her so much. In fact I want to make her my wife but i just recently found out that I had sex with her older sister about 6 years ago.
To be honest, i had no idea they were sisters and it was just a fling i had with her sister. Now, I donlt know if i should tell her what happened or let it go. But I am aslo scared that her older sister - whos now married with two kids - will tell her first. What do you suggest I do? I love her and dont want to even think of letting her slip through my fingers.
Please help me.
This is a crazy position you are into, I get it and I am sorry about it but my advice is simple: tell her the truth before she gets to hear from someone else.
When you had no idea they were sisters, it was fine but now, it's a different scenario. I belive, her sister will tell someday and you will be in trouble. Please let her know what happened and explain that it was just a fling, nothing serious. Also make her understand how much she means to you and you intentions for your relationship. Tell her you're not confessing now because you got caught but because it is important she knows the truth.
I cannot guarantee you that she will be fine with the truth she's about to hear or even want to continue with the relationship but trust me, the truth shall set you free. It's now left for her to stay or leave you. If she decides to leave, donot be depressed, but you will feel relieved for being honest with the love of your life. I am sorry darling but you have to be a man.
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