My crush has another boyfriend & I'm hurt

I love her so much and she loves me too. Please what should we do?

Dear Bukky,

There's a lady that has feelings for me to the extent that she comes to my house often but I did not show interest then.

I don't know what came over me but eventually, I developed interest in her. I later called her to express my feelings to her but she told me she is dating someone and that the guy has proposed to her by giving her a ring.

She said when she has showed her feelings and her love to me that I did not reciprocate, I didn't show her love and I tried to explain to her that it’s because of what I was passing through that made me not to look at her side then.

She burst into tears, confessing that she loved me so much but she did not know what to do. She was crying bitterly which also caused me to cry.

We often cry together whenever she comes around. At this juncture, I don’t know what to do.

I love her so much and she loves me too... please what should we do?________________

Dear reader,

I won’t be the person to tell you to snatch another person’s babe.

And here is why; if you had a girlfriend, would you want someone from her past coming to snatch her?

I think you had your chance and you blew it. Let sleeping dogs lie.

Take this as some unrectifiable mistake of yours and just move on. I think you need to make yourself scarce from that woman’s life. Let her enjoy her relationship.________________Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?

Do you have burning questions that you would love to get answers to?

Just send a mail to relationships@pulse.ng and I'll provide the most honest answers to them anonymously.

Note; the chances of getting a quick response reduces if the text in your email has a lot of abbreviations. So, please write as properly as possible.

So, why not send that mail today and let's talk about it?

A problem shared is a problem half-solved!

JOIN OUR PULSE COMMUNITY!

Unblock notifications in browser settings.

Eyewitness? Submit your stories now via social or:

Email: eyewitness@pulse.ng

Recommended articles

Africa Day 2022 addresses nutrition and food security

Africa Day 2022 addresses nutrition and food security

5 alternatives for women who hate wearing bras

5 alternatives for women who hate wearing bras

Khalil Halilu - The industrialist creating a foundation for Nigerian entrepreneurs to thrive and compete globally

Khalil Halilu - The industrialist creating a foundation for Nigerian entrepreneurs to thrive and compete globally

Bisi Is The Boss: The book every child needs to have on personal safety, body ownership and boundaries

Bisi Is The Boss: The book every child needs to have on personal safety, body ownership and boundaries

3 reasons why s*xting is needed in your relationship

3 reasons why s*xting is needed in your relationship

7 things every woman wants to hear during s*x

7 things every woman wants to hear during s*x

5 ways to relieve a stomach ulcer at home using natural remedies

5 ways to relieve a stomach ulcer at home using natural remedies

3 home remedies for tooth decay and cavities

3 home remedies for tooth decay and cavities

These 5 aso-ebi styles are trending

These 5 aso-ebi styles are trending