My partner hates foreplay; how do I get her to change?

What am I supposed to do to get her giving and enjoying foreplay?

Dear Bukky,

Please how I improve the quality of sex?

Secondly, my partner does not like foreplay. How do I deal with this?________________________

Dear reader,

There have been tips and loads of advice on how to go about these two issues and you can find these here and here.

I’d love to also address your question about your partner’s dislike of foreplay.

Generally speaking, women love foreplay… a lot. What could make your partner hate foreplay is when you are not doing it right.

Communicate about this. Ask her what turns her on.

When you realise what turns her on and you act on it, I have a feeling she’ll warm up to the idea.

It could also be for some other reason that you'll only get to know when you have that conversation with her.

Again, I think the links above will be more than helpful to you and I hope you do find all  answers you seek.

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