"I'm perfect for her but she dumped me for an idiot"

Just how perfect can you be for your partner? Is it even neccessary to try to be perfect for the one you love?

 

Dear Buchi,

I really want to sympathise with you for losing your girlfriend but the arrogance and subtle pride in your writing are what bothers me. If I may be right for a second, maybe that's exactly why she left you. Remember, I could be wrong.

What do you mean by "I am perfect for her"? She alone should know who is perfect for her or whom she wants to spend the rest of her life with. Unfortunately, you never mentioned how many years you guys have been together. If for a short time, then maybe she got overwhelmed or felt everything was in such a rush.

Sometimes it's not about being perfect for the ones we love. Its about being yourself. Let them see your flaws and then accept you for who you really are. Trying to be "perfect" for her may have comeout as you being fake or not showing your real self.

However, if you really did or do love her, go after the one you love. But please don't be so hopeful that she would get back with you or be the person you once knew. Prepare yourself for anything. I am really sorry for the break up. Simply calm down, think things through and then give her a call or ask for another meeting.

Goodluck to you sweetheart.

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