"Do I ask my best friend to hook me up with his ex?"

I really love this girl I met at the mall over the weekend. She is everything I love in a woman. Not only is she smart, but she loves life, being independent and yes, digs me too. Weve been talk on the phone but I just found out she used to date my now best friend.

The truth is, my friend has told me a lot about a girl he was madly in love with four years ago but she left him because he cheated. Despite not being together, he is still in love with her and thinks they are meant to be together. He still loves her and wants her back but from the looks of things, shes falling for me and I want her so bad. What do I do? Should I tell him the truth and then ask for his blessings?

Dear fan,

The truth is you owe it to your friend to break the news to him about you and his ex-girlfriend getting together. Do not allow her to tell him before you do and tell him in the absence of the lady. The truth is, you had no idea they knew each other and your actions were not coming from a malicious angle.

It will be hard but the truth is always best. Tell him about your feelings for this lady and how serious you both are. Also let him know, you are not ready to lose his friendship because it means the world to you and that you would be honored if the two of them should get along. No hard feelings.

Men are men, with time, it will be just fine. Good luck!