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Relationship Talk With Bukky My husband's side chick insulted me & he took her side

His response saddened my heart... I don't know what to do.

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7 times my ex made me regret being in love play My husband's side chick insulted me & he took her side. (CitizenTV)

Dear Bukky,

I called my husband's girlfriend and warned her to leave him and she started sending text messages to abuse and curse herself not me.

I showed the text to hubby and he faulted me for calling her, saying I got what I went to look for.

His response saddened my heart... I don't know what to do.

Dear reader,

You could call your man’s side chick forever. It won’t change anything. Your business is with your man and him only!

I’ll tell you why. You are in a relationship with him and not the babe. It is your man who owes you the duty and responsibility of being faithful to you, not the other woman.

ALSO READ: Why your partner will end up cheating on you

If your man is not willing to stop cheating, you could call and scare every babe away. It would only lead him to chasing a new one. That’s how it works. It’s not the babes. It’s your man.

Stop dealing with the result instead of addressing the cause.

Your man wants to be with other women. Ranting and chasing the women away won’t change much if your man is going to keep going back to look for a replacement.

Having said that, I don't think there's anything you can do to stop a man whose heart is bent in being promiscuous. You could be everything and more and he would still go after others if that's the path he has chosen.
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