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Relationship Talk With Bukky My ex wants me back; but I'm with someone else already

We dated for close to five years, and to be frank, she is very pretty and has attributes of a good wife .

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My ex wants me back; but there's someone else play

My ex wants me back; but I'm with someone else already.


Dear Bukky,

I’m currently in a situation that’s blowing my mind off. I am a corp member who is currently serving his nation.

My last girlfriend back in the University broke up with me upon our graduation in the name of ‘she wants to settle down, and can't wait for me to be ready.’

At that point there was this banker on board, now the relationship didn't go the way she thought, she later discovered the guy was married with kids, and now she’s currently pleading we return.

This babe and I dated for close to five years, and to be frank, she is really very pretty and has good wife attributes.

Please I really don't know what to do because I’m already in another relationship with a colleague of mine down here where I’m serving.

Truth be told, I still love my ex so much, but don't know how to go about it because my current girl has been so lovely too.
Dear reader,

I wouldn’t leave this new babe if I were you. Afterall, she has not left you to go meet someone else like your ex did.

I think it’d be unfair to leave her for someone who dumped you and is coming back just because things did not work out with the other person.

Please stay with your new girl. If your ex could leave you before, what makes you think she won’t do it again?_______________

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