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My boyfriend and my ex want to marry me; I'm confused

I love both of them and I'm not sure about who to be with.

Hello Bukky,

I'm in a confused situation right now.

I dated a guy for five years but last year I fell in love with another guy but he is a chronic womaniser and not as romantic as my previous boyfriend.

The thing is that my ex has refused to give up on me and still thinks we were meant for each other but he's not ready to settle down until he's financially stable.

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On the other hand my current boyfriend wants to settle down. I love both of them and not sure about who to be with._______________

Dear reader,

Rushing to get married is not right, if you have not sorted out your issues and set your priorities in order.

Would you be OK with a cheating husband and not throw tantrums and all? If yes, then go ahead with your present boyfriend because that is one of the things he obviously brings to the table.

I know that no man is perfect so I'd advise you, in your quest for a husband, to know what you can do without and what you can't do without; what you need in a man most and what you can do away with.

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The man who ticks the most important, major boxes for you is the one you should choose if you intend to be happily married.________________Do you want to talk about your love life, marriage or family issues?

Do you have burning questions that you would love to get answers to?

Just send a mail to relationships@pulse.ng and I'll provide the most honest answers to them anonymously.

Note; the chances of getting a quick response reduces if the text in your email has a lot of abbreviations. So, please write as properly as possible.

So, why not send that mail today and let's talk about it?

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