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Relationship Talk With Bukky My boyfriend got a job & left me for his ex; should I beg him?

In the last six months he has broken up with me more than six times for no reason before I found out about him and his ex.

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Dear Bukky,

I have been in a relationship for the past two years and six months. My relationship was not going well because I never got attention.

I did the calling because he did not have a job and claimed to be broke. Most times I even sent him money.

Finally he got a job and started acting funny, in the last six months he has broken up with me more than six times for no reason before finally I found out he went back to his ex.

He started posting her pictures and all that... Please I’m confused; do you think I should try to win him back or forget about my two years relationship?

Dear reader,

To be frank with you, I don’t think there’s anything to try to win back. Let that man go.

His actions should have shown you where his heart is and how much importance he attaches to you. If his reflex once he got a job was to run back to that other woman, I think that should tell you all you need to know.

He has broken up with you six times already. A whole six times. Come on, I know it is easier said than done but leaving that man is the best choice you should be making right now.

No point trying to win him back the seventh time. Let him go.
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