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Marriage Advice How to be the best wife in the world

On the domestic front, the role of a woman in the home is very vital to the success of her marriage. So how do you become that extraordinary wife like the 'Virtuous Woman' mentioned in the bible?

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In recent times, women are been seen at the top of the corporate ladder which was once dominated by men, because they are now being recognized for their excellent leadership skills.

On the domestic front, the role of a woman in the home is very vital to the success of her marriage. So how do you become that extraordinary wife like the 'Virtuous Woman' mentioned in the bible?

Here are some useful tips to help you achieve that:

  • Have a vision: Clarity of vision is essential in sustaining the love and passion of your marriage. It is not enough to know what you don't want to feel, or happen. You must know exactly what you do want, or you will be distracted with the little life stressors that pile up and become things that you argue about without knowing why. Without any clear vision, your relationship and connection will drift, caught up in unimportant things. What do you want your marriage to look like? How do you want to feel when you are interacting with your spouse? What are you working towards building together?

  • Use your creativity: The skills you employ in influencing people are very helpful with your partner. Real leadership is not about criticizing and telling people what to do. According to Sheryl Sandberg (COO of Facebook), leadership is about making people better as a result or your presence and making sure that impact lasts in your absence. Your willingness to be creative can change the dynamics of any relationship. You can be light-hearted, fun, and playful, and always remember why you love this person and why you are with them.

  • Be determined: For any level of business to be sustained, energy must be exerted or the business will fail. This is also true of a relationship. It will flounder, if left on its own and result in the disconnection of the partners. Turning a business or relationship around requires even more energy, not the same energy that sustains it. Determination to manifest the vision you want can result in an increased sense of curiosity. What is actually working well between you as a couple?  What strategies are you using that aren't working to sustain connection? As the smart person you are, you realize that if a strategy isn't working then it's time to change it and try something new, or the results will continue to be the same. So also, the same relentless determination you use in business can be beneficial in turning around even the most difficult relationship challenges.

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