Being in a relationship is never a one way traffic. It ultimately involves a woman/lady and a man/guy. Sadly, most women have come to a conclusion that a relationship between a man and woman involves the man spending and the woman being "domestic". Well, if you want to add a "little spice" to your relationship, here is one big tip!

Most women need to stop and go back to their drawing boards and check out those fantasies you've kept hidden for some time. What toys, positions or erotic activities have you seen or heard about recently that you would like to try? Explore these ideas and bring them up to you partner.

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The  truth is men enjoy when women can be direct with what they want to experiment with sexually and spicing things up ultimately begins with presenting an idea. If you are unable to think of what next to do or experiment with, seek help from him.

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Don’t be scared about visiting a sex toy store. You can take a late night adult field trip with your man and explore an adult store filled with videos, toys and other accessories.  While in the store, you and your lover can talk about the things you see and what interests you both and learn how to use these things to your advantage.

Agree on a few purchases and then go home and prepare to explore.