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For Men How to never lose your woman's trust

The thing about trust is that although it takes time to build, it does not take too much to lose it.

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How to never lose a woman's trust


You’ll agree that it often takes women some time to warm up to a guy, and they usually do not let down their guard easily.

Once this happens though, they love truly and trust you deeply. A woman in love will make excuses for you when you are not getting it right, she will stand by you when you are yet to find your feet and be there for you when you need someone to lean on.

But the thing about trust is that although it takes time to build, it does not take too much to lose it.

For men in relationships, while your woman might give you a long leash because of the love she has for you, there are still things you should not do to abuse that trust.

play Avoid being disappointing all the time (Shutterstock)

We list 5 of these things below.

1. Avoid situations that require apologies

A good man knows he has responsibilities and acts accordingly.

That way you do not need to apologise for disappointing her. If you can build a habit of doing things expected of you and living up to your promises, you can never lose your woman’s belief in you.

2. Learn to say sorry

Sometimes circumstances occur beyond our powers. When these uncontrollable things happen and affect your ability to deliver on a promise made, be apologetic enough and give accurate explanations for why you were unable to do what you said you would.

play If you are the type who is quick to leak people's seret to her, she might soon start wondering whether you are revealing hers to other people (Madamenoire)

3. Be yourself everywhere

Imagine having to change your personality around the different groups of people you belong in.

Here you are religious and full of good morals, at another place you are free and full of loose talk. That’s being double-faced and a woman who notices this might have issues still trusting you.

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4. Private information

If you are quick to leak every sensitive secret you are trusted with to her, won’t it be long before she starts to wonder if her own secret is even safe with you?

play How you relate with people you claim to care about also matters (Madamenoire)

5. How you talk about people you ‘care’ about

Do you say bad things about people you ‘care’ about behind their backs? Do you belittle them and make them sound or look like nothing when they are not there?

This could also affect the way you are seen, and the amount of trust your partner will have in you.

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