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For Guys 7 ways to leave a great first impression on bae's parents

Every of your moves and words count.

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Introducing boo to the family

When a guy meets the love of his life, it is often a thing between just him, his friends, his bae, her friends and some other people.

Most times, the guy and babe's folks don't know about it till some later time.

But when the time comes to be introduced to your bae's popsy and momsy , how can you leave a lasting positive impression on them?

1. Dress for the occasion

Nigerian parents  are still generally impressed my moderate, modest dressing; so that should be where you start from.

play The point is to look as modest and respectable as possible (Naij)


You want to impress them, not appear too flashy or flamboyant.

Keyword: Modesty and Moderacy

Start with the basics. You need to look nice, well-groomed, and clean. Dress

2. Keep your hands off her

Understandably, you and bae are often touchy and expressive with yourselves but around her parents, cool down with the physical contact.

ALSO READ: When is the right time to introduce bae to one’s parents?

Considering how Nigerian parents could be about pre-marital sex and all, you might want to avoiding kisses altogether. Don’t even kiss her cheek.

play You need to keep your hands off bae. (Daily Mail)

3. Play it cool

Your girl’s family will be curious about your career, goals, and education. Don’t take it as a way of undermining you as a man, if, somehow you feel you do not match their expectation in these regards.

It is due procedure and they only want what’s best for their daughter.

4. Keep conversation light

Avoid putting your points across too vehemently, especially if it is one that is opposite the one being presented by either the mom or dad, or another senior member of the family.

You’re just about the first impressions here, so try keep the conversation light and stay off controversial topics or those that could degenerate into arguments.

When does one introduce bae to parents play Keep conversations as light and hearty as possible (Essence)

5. Don’t ever get drunk

You might be offered alchohol especially if her folks drink, and that’s fine.

However, if you accept the offer, be careful never to get drunk. No matter freely the booze flows, DO NOT GET HIGH ON IT.

ALSO READ: 5 signs that your relationship is slipping into ruin

6. Offer to assist

Your hosts, your bae’s family would have put some effort into making you comfortable on your visit. The least you can do is offer to help with some chores while you are there.

play Be appreciative of their efforts t make you feel welcome (KY)


Most times, they’ll decline but still, you need to offer that assistance.

It looks good on you to be courteous.

7. Appreciate them

There’s a big chance that her parents were informed about your coming, and they actually put things in place to entertain you and make you feel as comfortable as possible.

You can absolutely charm them by being appreciative. Never forget, parents are big on politeness, courtesy and all that.

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