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Friendships 5 reasons ladies should have male friends

It doesn't mean that you shouldn't weigh the pros and cons of having a male friend

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For a woman, having male friends is quite essential because it makes you reason from a different perspective and be less judgemental of them.

It doesn't mean that you shouldn't weigh the pros and cons of having a male friend but there could be true friendship between a man and a woman.

Womanitely lists 5 reasons why you should have good male friends

  1. You can explore the men’s nature: A man and a woman are two absolutely different human beings. It seems they’re living in different realities. There’s no doubt that every woman would like to understand males better. The best way to explore the men’s nature is by making more male friends. If you think that reading men’s magazines will help you study the psychology of men, then you’re mistaken. Only everyday communication will provide you a chance to understand their feelings, interests, values and thoughts. Your male friend is the only one who can give a valuable advice on how to win the affection of the man you’re in love with. This knowledge will come in handy in the future. Psychologists state that those ladies who get along better with guys have more chances to build long-lasting and romantic relationships with their significant others.

  2. They have a good sense of humor: I’ve always been fond of men’s humor, because their funny jokes can relax the atmosphere and make me laugh regardless of everything. Every time I get into awkward situations my male friends always try to lift my spirits. Their jokes are the best remedy for me. Unlike women, men try to distract my attention from the problem and teach me to be more optimistic about everything. I think that this quality makes men emotionally strong and resistant to stress. Good humor is the choice of successful men. If you want to be surrounded with positivity and good-humored people, you should get rid of your stereotypes and agree that friendship between men and women is of great importance.

  3. They can solve your problems: It’s been proved that men have a little bit another vision of the world. They’re inborn warriors who can easily face and handle harsh realities of this difficult life. Unlike women, they’re not afraid of challenges or risks, because the desire to win is running through their veins. I think that every lady needs a true guy friend ready to lend his shoulder in a difficult time. Male friends won’t wait until your break into tears and become disheartened. They’ll move the mountains to help you find the best solution to various problems. Furthermore, their high degree of personal initiative gives you new opportunities and chances to develop, grow and win together. But it doesn’t mean that you should make male friends just for personal or business purposes. Highly intelligent men have good mental and life skills. They can answer all questions you’ve always been interested in. These quality chats can significantly boost your self-confidence and make you more mature.

  4. Men are more sincere: It’s a huge mistake to fully trust the human species, but I find it incredibly difficult to keep my secrets and feelings to myself. My best male friend Steve is the only person among my friends who I trust utterly. I can entrust him with my secrets and be sure that they will remain confidential regardless of everything. As a woman, I know that all ladies are absolutely unable to keep secrets till the grave. I think that every woman is a fan of drama. Their excessive talkativeness can make them let the cat out of the bag unconsciously. I believe that men are more sincere and frank with their feelings and emotions. My male friends never play double games and prefer to tell me the truth. Sometimes this truth can be bitter and unpleasant, but it’s better than sweet lies.

  5. It will increase your self-esteem: Regular communication with male friends will make you more attractive, confident and emancipated. If you want to be a successful woman, you should learn how to build and keep up both friendship and diplomatic relationships with men and women. When I got acquainted with Steve, I was a real tomboy. Eight years of communication helped me turn into a real woman. He changed my mindset and taught me to dress up and behave like a lady. Now I can state with assurance that male friends are wonderful teachers. They fill the lives of women with bright colors.

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