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For Men Stop frustrating your partners with these 4 things

Four big ways you have been making your girl’s head ache… that you really need to stop now!

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Unhappy partners

(Black Love Advice)

We listed the four most frustrating things women do to their partners.

Now we list below the most frustrating things men do to women.

And frankly, guys, it won’t be long before your relationship becomes unconducive for happiness if you keep up with these four things, especially if you refuse to change despite your partner's constant complaints.

Unhealthy behaviours in relationships always leave people worried, stressed and unhappy. play Stop driving your girl crazy; just make her happy! (Madamenoire)


1. Checking your phone when she’s talking to you

Whether it is on a date or at home, it is disrespectful to check out your phone when your woman is trying to discuss anything with you. It is even worse when she’s discussing something really important about herself, her work or the relationship.

Checking out your phone at these times is the same as telling her that you don’t give a rat’s ass about whatever she’s saying.

Letting go of toxic relationships play You can't afford to not let communication flourish in your relationship (Dasubjectmatter)


It is disrespectful and could lead to a breakdown of communication; something you really don't want in your relationship.

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2. Forgetting milestones

Not only will you earn huge love points when you remember her birthday, you are expected to remember anniversaries too – wedding, honeymoon, first time you went on date… basically every significant date in that relationship/marriage.

3. Complacence

Women want a man who treats them like he did before they agreed to be with him – and that’s not too much of a demand to make.

Happy marriages and gender roles play Don't relent in making her happy - whether the relationship is one month or 10 years old (Livestrong)

All the attention you paid before you got her – the phone calls, the gifts, the words of endearment, the romantic gestures, how you used to offer to help her do stuff – you need to keep them up.

You can’t get the girl and become complacent and lackadaisical about doing things that make her happy.

4. Checking out other women

It is highly disrespectful to check out other women's bodies, especially when your partner is right there, seated, standing or riding beside you.

Your woman deserves your respect and if you intend to make her happy, and your relationship flourish, you can't afford to not take this duty seriously.

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