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For Ladies Stop saying these 5 things if you value your relationship

Revealing the things to avoid saying to your partner, no matter how angry you are.

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Saying some hurtful things to your partner will ruin your relationship beyond repair play

Saying some hurtful things to your partner will ruin your relationship beyond repair



Women are recognized for being very emotional, and this often affects the things they say.

This happens especially when their emotions are running high, be it in anger, fear, jealousy or… every other thing that makes women emotional.

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However, no matter how emotional you are, saying some things to your boo might ruin your relationship permanently, even though you did not really the words.

ALSO READ: 5 things guys need to stop saying to their girlfriends if they value them

So, be careful to stop yourself from saying these things from this moment.

“If you don’t love me again just say it”

The very fact that he is misbehaving or not giving you the things you want from him does not mean that he is no longer interested in you.

It could be that he has some other issues he is trying to handle without involving you.

Just cut him some slack, stop badgering him to tell you something you really do not want to hear.

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“Do what you want I don’t care”

 From experience, when women say this they never mean it.

However, repeating this all the time to your partner might actually make him believe that you indeed do not care.

If he indeed does what he wants, it might be the end of that relationship.

“I want out”

Be careful what you wish for.

Words said in anger might be excused when said once. Repeatedly saying you are no longer in the relationship might eventually cause your partner to let go of you.

Do not cry foul when this happens.

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“I wish I never met you”

This is a downright hurtful, terrible thing to say.

Throwing this at your partner at every opportunity you get will cause him to get tired of you and of move on to someone else who won’t regret his presence all the time.

The silent treatment

The worst thing to  apart from these things listed above is to not say anything at all.

No matter the temptation to just sit and say nothing despite there being a lot to say and rant about.

Giving him the silent treatment will cause emotions and unsaid words to pile up over time, and by the time they come bursting out, the damage done might be beyond repair.

Having said all these, the best way to ensure that communication between you and your partner is kept healthy is to be positive, thoughtful and considerate of his feelings when communicating with him.

Don't forget, you can always reach out to us with your relationship matters and we will try to help you through every single one of them as honestly as possible. Click here to find out how to reach us.

We look forward to hearing from you.

Be honest, do you fall in the category of ladies that say these things?»

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