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For Men 5 secret codes of communicating with women

Women are very good at dropping hints for their partners who are sadly not so good at picking them.

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If everyone gets a kobo for everytime they hear someone say 'women are too difficult to understand', we'll all be millionaires by now.

Clearly there's a true/untrue belief out there that many women are so difficult to understand and that as a man, you'd need some form of heightened sensitivity to always decipher what a woman really wants because they don't ever say what they want, and when they do, they usually mean the opposite.

According a post on relationships page, CapitalFm, women truly drop secret codes for men and expect them to pick up on those hints.

Breadcrumbing play When she messages you with three dots ending her text, she wants you to keep the convo going (Independent)


Five of these hints are interpreted below:

1. Three dots at the end of messages

Apparently when women do this, they expect you to keep the conversation going. Because they enjoy chatting with you.

2. How was your day?

CapitalFM says when a woman asks this question, she indirectly wants you to show interest in how her own day went.

3 things lovers should never get tired of doing for each other play Do men need special powers of deciphering stuff in order to adequately communicate with women? (Image of Love)


3. Are we good?

When she asks this, she’s likely worried that you are no longer as close and warm towards her as you used to be.

It’s a code for “have I done anything to piss you off?”

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4. The mute treatment

Every man is probably aware or used to this one.

When women do this, it’s a coded way of letting you know that you have royally messed up and she is expecting you explanation or apology or both.

It’s also a way of asking for your attention.

Lovers you can't be with at 30 play Women sometimes ask coded questions to get clarification from you (ThyBlackMan)


5. What are we?

A variant of this is ‘where are we going?’ and ‘what are we doing?’

Basically, a woman who asks this is surely feeling you but thinks you are taking too much time to take the relationship to the next level.

So that’s either her way of telling you to ask her to be your girlfriend, or propose marriage to her

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