My girl's unavailability has pushed me to sleep with another woman and I'm now so confused.
Good day, I'm having this issue in my love life. I have this girl we have been friends for some years before we started dating 2016 but I wasn't around till this year I came back.
But she's always busy at work and which started late last year.
I had met my classmate on social media and when we started chatting, I told her about my girlfriend. Regardless, we kept getting along very closely.
When I came back to Nigeria, my girlfriend was so busy that she couldn't see me but my classmate was eager to see me and she sent me money for transport to come back home and I travelled home.
We met and had intimacy. She has been there for me since then till now. But the truth is that I don't want to lose her or my girlfriend who happens to not be giving me that attention I need.
What do I do now? I don't know if she is truly busy or just avoiding me. I really love her so I can't tell her about my classmate.
But I have not slept with my girlfriend but I have with my classmate. Because she my babe is always busy.
I think you are getting it wrong, dear friend.
If you have a girlfriend and there’s something wrong in your relationship, the first thing to do at any point is to talk about it.
Especially in a situation that has been left to fester up till this moment. I wouldn’t advise anything else than a conversation with your girl.
You are already having doubts about her behavior towards you. And frankly you don’t need these doubts when you can easily just hit her up and ask questions.
“’What’s up?’ ‘Are we good?’ ‘What are we doing?’ ‘Are you still feeling this relationship?’ ‘Why are we not creating more time for each other?’”
Until you delve into questions as this, you won’t know where the relationship with your girl is headed. I think you should do that ASAP. So you don’t end up losing both ways.
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