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Relationships and Sex 7 sexual things women wish men would do more

Spice up your relationship and marriage, guys; learn the things babes really want from you at intimate times.

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7 sexual things women wished men would do more

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Many women might find it difficult to discuss these things because they are either shy or because they expect you to find out on your own.

We got you covered though, and with the information provided below, you can be sure that you will meet your girlfriend/wife's truest desires even if she's too shy to vocalize them.

 Eye contact

Eye contact is very important during moments of intimacy, especially when you’re actually having sex.

Hannah [not her real name] says, "Especially when he first puts it in me.

“There's the whole ‘me seeing him seeing me take him into me’  thing that gets me so turned on… moves that make the experience feel more intimate, and makes the sex feel more passionate."

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Get your freak on

“I think that the majority of women like it when a guy spanks them,” [Kayla] says.

The rule here, however is to be sure that she is cool with it, and that you do not get into outrageous kinkiness [except she likes it that way of course.]

For instance, by asking, "can I spank you?" you can ensure you're both on the same page.

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Be a bit more vocal

You know how you know something is being done right by the moans coming from her?

Well, she thinks some form of cue from you might be helpful too.

"I love it when I'm having sex with a guy who's really loud about what feels good," [Hajara] says.

"Especially when I'm on top. It… turns me on even more."

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Get better at playing with the clit

Statistics establish that that 70% of women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.

So, guys, learn how your woman likes it touched, and touch it often.

Greatest tip; be gentle around there. Be very gentle, until she says otherwise. [Thank me later.]

Longer foreplay

As a matter of necessity, women need a healthy amount of foreplay to make most love-making sessions worthwhile, and doing so not only brings her satisfation, it also has amazing positive effects on your relationship/marriage.

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A lil’ more spontaneity

It’s as simple as ABC, add a considerable dosage of quickies to your relationship or marriage.

Of course, you have to know that you don’t need to get into the bedroom before things can get heated up. And in some instances, you do not even need grand foreplay. Going straight to the point might be the most explosive thing you do sometimes.


Be extra attentive

"If a woman is making noise when you're doing something, take note. It means she likes that thing.” says Harachi.

In conclusion, many women would rather have you do stuff that actually turns them on, and gives them maximum pleasure.

All the things listed in this article are very useful, but if your babe is not feeling a particular one, switch things up.

That something got your ex soaring pleasurably into cloud 9, or that it was listed here is not complete guarantee that your babe will like it.

Pay attention to her and how she reacts to the things you do; that’s the biggest rule of all!

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