5 ways to stay in love with your partner

December 9, 2021 11:01 AM

In every relationship, there comes a moment when the fire goes out a bit, and things start to feel very routine. Those butterflies can't keep fluttering in your stomach forever, and those rose-colored glasses will really come off at some point.

5 ways to stay in love with your partner

Of course, that doesn't mean that you should end the relationship, as it is entirely normal.

If you land on planet earth again, you will have to work a little harder here and there to stay in love with your partner.

Fortunately, there are tricks.

1. Go back to the beginning

Tell each other what you thought when you first saw each other. What did you like about the other person? Why did you fall in love? What traits did you find so smashing back then? The dimples in the cheeks? The infectious laugh?

Chances are you still see some of that now. Focus on that.

2. Look with new eyes

How would you look at the other person if you were on a blind date with them right now? Do that! Look very consciously at your partner at a party. See how gallant he is, with how much passion he talks about something? Keep those new sparks coming! Or watch your partner in a different role – for example, if he has to give a presentation.

3. Be grateful

When habits take over in a relationship, you can take the sweet things your partner does for you for granted. And even if you do notice them, do you still show your gratitude? So write your partner a note thanking him for always taking out the trash, cleaning the windows, or giving you an incredible massage after a long day.

4. Surprise each other

To relive the feeling of being in love again, it is important to find things that trigger this feeling. You can evoke this feeling of love by occasionally surprising each other. For example, you can 'kidnap' each other to someone's favorite restaurant or plan a surprise weekend away. You can, of course, prepare your partner's favorite dish as a surprise. It doesn't have to be big; it's about the surprise and, therefore, about the gesture.

5. Flirt with each other

Feeling happy in a long-term relationship includes feeling that someone will always be there for you. No matter what happens, you know someone is there to catch you. But at the same time, we also need tension and mysticism. The challenge is to have both things with one person. And to do this, you can keep flirting with each other like you did when you first met. So send an exciting text message to your loved one (however weird this feels the first time), tease each other or show a little more affection.

Good luck!

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Emmanuel Chisom is an experienced article and blog post writer with thorough expertise in helping my clients develop well researched, interesting and engaging contents for brands, websites and businesses.

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