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Love, Sex & Pleasure 10 things your girl needs you to know before going down on her

Because bad oral sex is really just as heartbreaking for women as no oral sex.

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We all know a healthy sex life is an integral part of a healthy, happy relationship and oral sex plays a huge part in activating a thriving sex life.

Every good lover knows that prioritizing his woman’s sexual needs is an unbendable rule. And of course, “Ï don’t like getting head” said no woman ever.

But then, while your sweetheart loves to feel the sensual intimacy of oral sex with you, she also needs you to always get it right.

Bad oral sex is really just as heartbreaking for women as no oral sex.

To stay on top of your game and keep your woman far away from the claws of sexual frustration, these are the 10 things she wants you to know about giving head.

1. Listen to her

You really can’t succeed much at it if you are unwilling to listen to what she says to you during the act. Forget everything you have learnt or seen anywhere else and just listen to her in that moment

Remember, communication is key. Even during sex.

2. Compliment her

Because body-positive comments [especially after getting naked with her] play a huge part in the grand scheme of things.

3. Take your time

Slow and steady wins the race. No rush, my man. Three minutes won’t take her there.

4. Don’t pull, don’t stretch

You are dealing mostly with the clitoris, a very sensitive organ down there.

Pulling, stretching, and tugging are absolutely not permitted. Never, unless she orally asks for it. [Pun very intended]

5. Body language

If she flinches or stiffens at any point, no matter how slight, you have to know you are doing something wrong and just stop.

6. Gentle is the word

This is just as easy and straightforward as it sounds.

7. Your hands

Don’t leave them idle while your tongue and mouth are busy.

Her legs, back, breasts, butt… don't ignore them.

play Fingers are just as good... temporarily. (Instagram)

8. Your fingers

The tongue does get tired. Instead of stopping altogether, let your magic fingers do their thing for a while… till your lips and tongue have rested just enough.

9. Is she quiet?

Then it means everything is aii. Don’t ask. If she’s quiet, it’s better to assume she’s feeling it than to pause and ask questions. She could be on the verge of something massive and that pause could ruin it for her.

10. Obey to the letter

“Like that” means like that. Not faster.

“Stop” , means stop immediately.

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