Because bad oral sex is really just as heartbreaking for women as no oral sex.
But then, while your sweetheart loves to feel the sensual intimacy of oral sex with you, she also needs you to always get it right.
Bad oral sex is really just as heartbreaking for women as no oral sex.
To stay on top of your game and keep your woman far away from the claws of sexual frustration, these are the 10 things she wants you to know about giving head.
You really can’t succeed much at it if you are unwilling to listen to what she says to you during the act. Forget everything you have learnt or seen anywhere else and just listen to her in that moment
Remember, communication is key. Even during sex.
Because body-positive comments [especially after getting naked with her] play a huge part in the grand scheme of things.
Slow and steady wins the race. No rush, my man. Three minutes won’t take her there.
You are dealing mostly with the clitoris, a very sensitive organ down there.
Pulling, stretching, and tugging are absolutely not permitted. Never, unless she orally asks for it. [Pun very intended]
If she flinches or stiffens at any point, no matter how slight, you have to know you are doing something wrong and just stop.
This is just as easy and straightforward as it sounds.
Don’t leave them idle while your tongue and mouth are busy.
Her legs, back, breasts, butt… don't ignore them.
The tongue does get tired. Instead of stopping altogether, let your magic fingers do their thing for a while… till your lips and tongue have rested just enough.
Then it means everything is aii. Don’t ask. If she’s quiet, it’s better to assume she’s feeling it than to pause and ask questions. She could be on the verge of something massive and that pause could ruin it for her.
“Like that” means like that. Not faster.
“Stop” , means stop immediately.