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Wha'anda Asks... SEX & LOVE: Can You Date A Professional Stripper?

Would you consider a stripper or sex worker for a relationship?

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  play Take a stripper for love?

Hmmm, a tough one, right?

This was the topic of discussion that came up when I hung out with some guys yesterday.

According to the Wikipedia, "a stripper or exotic dancer is a person whose occupation involves performing striptease in a public adult entertainment venue such as a strip club."

With the proliferation of clubs, it is certain that stripping is a profession that has come to stay.

They dance and they model for money. It is as simple as that.

But most strippers (and other sex workers) have been denied their social dignity because most people see what they do as not only immoral, but debased.

And then I ask: Why do people patronise strippers if they're so 'ignoble'?

Should dancing for money, albeit being naked, be a reason to condemn a person?

Anyway, in my chat with my guys, I was able to realise that most guys would not mind dating a stripper.

Interestingly, the assumption is that you'll easily get sex from a stripper girlfriend than any other kind of girl.

That remains to be proven though.

Even more interesting is the fact that all the guys also said they would never consider marrying a woman who is or once was a stripper — it is sex only.

"I will not mind dating a stripper," says Chinedu. "But we will make it clear that it is just about sex and nothing more."


I throw the question to you: Can you date a professional stripper?

Yes? No? Why?