If you’re giving him head, he needs to keep his pubic hair under control. While being clean is the first step to preparing for a great blowjob, you don’t want to completely overlook pubic hair.
It is quite relevant to discuss how pubic hair affects you when you’re giving him head. So, make sure you and your partner agree on what kind of grooming he needs to do. Here’s how to get him to do it.
1. Discuss it with him
Even though it’s fine to talk about what to do with his pubes, it’s still not a conversation you want to be having right before you’re about to get it on. So talk about it after sex, or while you’re having breakfast the next morning. Simply tell him that it would make giving oral sex easier for you if he had more control over the growth of his pubic hair. That's not so hard to say! But remember, the end decision is his, but you surely have the right to weigh in, considering it’s your face down there.
Trimming is easy and quick, it makes a guy feel less vulnerable than shaving or waxing does. To be honest, most men trim. All he needs to do is take a beard trimmer and use an attachment that will trim the hair at the length he wants. If he likes a lot of hair, you can compromise by using a longer trimming attachment that still keeps his hair under control without making him feel awful. If you have trouble convincing him to groom, let him know that it’s a proven fact that a penis looks smaller when it’s drowning in pubic hair.
3. Getting him to shave
This is another option. Shaving is totally up to him – because many guys don’t like it. Shaving can cause wicked shaving bumps and it can be super uncomfortable when it grows back. And men won’t consider what they prefer on a woman during cunnilingus when they’re taking their own pubic hair status into account. If your man does shave, it’s unlikely that he’ll shave it all off, although some guys do prefer to do that and like the completely bald look.
Guys aren’t usually into taking the pain thing for the sake of beauty the way women are. Women are raised to believe that if it makes you look better, it doesn’t matter if it hurts. It's not so with guys – so don’t suggest waxing to your guy – just don’t. He’ll probably look at you like you’re nuts. However, if you are with one of the few guys who does prefer waxing as their means of pubic hair grooming, good for you. Be thankful he cares that much. Once your man has completed his waxing, do not forget to let him know how much his newly manscaped genitals turn you on.
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