Hey guys, welcome to SexVille Tuesday. In the past two weeks, we have been dealing on the foreplay tips men can use to bring the best in their women. We got bombarded with demands from the ladies, asking us to be fair to them and also point out the foreplay tips they too can apply on their men. So to hearken to those demands, we bring you the top tips you could use to make your man go gaga.
The truth is that if you do foreplay right, then your man is going to have incredibly powerful and enjoyable orgasms and will also look out for the next time you will get under the sheets.
Here we go.
Your looks matter: You should always be reminded that guys are visual by nature and they get turned on with what they see. So, taking care of how you look is a high priority if you want to turn your man on and arouse him. Think of this as a 'pre' foreplay tip to use before you even begin touching him.
If you are both going to a party together, dressing up in something sexy and hot is going to start turning your man on hours before you start getting physically intimate. This is great for building sexual tension with him.
Talk dirty: Talking dirty is another 'pre' foreplay tips to use on your man throughout the day, before you are both alone together, as well as during foreplay itself. This is to build the sexual tension and have your man salivating for you.
Many people believe that talking dirty involves using various expletives and bad language on your partner. They believe that the crazier they sound, the better. This, thankfully, isn't true. It's much easier than that!
You just need to tell him what you enjoy, why he turns you on and what you want to do to him. As well as this, it's always a good idea to throw in some vague statements to keep him guessing and thinking about you.
Learn how to be a good kisser: Many people think that kissing is a boring foreplay technique, but we can tell you that it is one of the best method of foreplay. Kissing brings to your brain the sense of connection between lovers and reminder that you one. And if you do it right, then it can be incredibly hot! The key is taking the initiative. In other words, you need to kiss your man first before he gets a chance to kiss you.
One thing you can do to make this foreplay tip hotter is getting a little more aggressive:
Try squeezing one of his lips between your lips.
Gently bite one of his lips between your teeth (Remember: be gentle o!)
Use your hand to move his head to one side or the other so that you can change where you kiss him.
Switch from kissing him on the lips to sucking his ear lobe to kissing him on the neck.
Don't forget to kiss the rest of his body!
Learn how to give a good handjob: While kissing your man, you can incorporate another foreplay tip, which is giving your man a handjob. These are some of the skills in giving a handjob that will have your man jerking off.
Alternate how hard you hold your man's penis in your hand(s). Hold it firmly for a little bit, then give him some soft and gentle strokes before grabbing it more tightly again.
Use your entire hand to grip his shaft, then just use your thumb and forefinger.
Run each finger slowly over the head of his penis.
Grab his shaft with your fingers and then put your thumb over the head of his penis.
Use some of his precum as a lubricant, and move your thumb in a circular motion over the head. Don't be surprised if this alone is enough to make him climax.
Massage his scalp: Massaging your man's scalp is one of those forgotten foreplay tips that feels wonderful for a man. You can do it while you are just sitting down beside each other, when you are lying in bed, when you are kissing each other or even while having sex, too. But don't just scrape his head with your nails! To massage his scalp, start from the bottom near the back of his neck or just above his ear.
Keeping your hand loose, start to slowly push your fingers through his hair up towards the top of his head. When you reach the top of his head, curl your fingers slightly and gently bring them down in the opposite direction, lightly scratching his head.
Just the tip: This foreplay tip is great to use right as you are about to have sex with your man. It's called 'Just the tip', because you are going to tease your man by only allowing the tip of his penis to just about enter you. It's great for building sexual tension right before sex.
The easiest way to play 'just the tip' with your man is to grab a hold of his penis so that you can control where it goes. Once you have it in your hand, start rubbing your labia and clitoris with the head of his penis for a little bit before allowing just the tip of it to enter you. After he enters you, only allow him to penetrate about half an inch or so. Doing this foreplay tip for a few minutes before he fully enters you will drive him wild with desire.
Give him an awesome blowjob: If you really want to please your man, then you need to learn the ultimate foreplay tip, which is giving him a great and spell binding blowjob. Whether you like it or not, have any experience or not or you see it as a dirty habit, your husband is secretly praying you give him one A blowjob not onlt tells your man you care about his pleasure as well, he also knows you are fulfilling one of his fantasies.