A lot of the time, this insecurity comes from not exactly knowing how to position oneself. Should you be on your knees? On your side? The positions are obviously endless, and the clear variety of options can make it an overwhelming experience.

So, check out some best possible positions for giving a BJ below.

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1. Have your partner sit down

Got some seating in your room? Use it! Sitting on a table with her sitting on a bench is a great position.  Most people don’t have tables in their room, but, on the off chance that you do, you should definitely use it.

2. Have your partner straddle you

Or, if you want to make things a little more interesting, Have your guy straddle you. It sounds weird, but, apparently, it works. When a guy straddles your upper body and you can suck his dick while he reaches behind himself to play with your clit.

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3. Kneeling

If swallowing is something you like to do, but find challenging, you can try and fix that with your position. So it's either him sitting/standing and you kneeling/lying on your back. It's actually easier to swallow in this position