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Keep your hand enveloped round their shaft but just pressing and releasing in a ‘pulsing’ pace.

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Handjobs are frequently conceived of as a bit of an 'immature' act, like fingering.

However, many penis-owners love them and sing their praises. So here's how to perfect the art of the handy game.

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1. Just grease

If your dry palm pulls and chafes against the skin of a penis, they're likely to cringe. Smoothing a dash of lubricant over your hands before touching them will ensure your movements feel smoother and slicker. Lubes can also add alternative sensory aspects to hand jobs. Try a warming or tingling type to switch things up if your lover appreciates such sensations.

2. Add some gloves or toys

Try role-playing by wearing a pair of latex gloves and applying on some lube, then playing doctors and nurses by giving them a ‘thorough manual examination’. If you’d both like to experiment with some anal play and finger probing, too, wearing gloves can help reassure and relax you both about hygiene.

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3. Improve the force of grip

In fact, many would prefer a much tighter, stronger, almost more aggressive grip. Lots of ladies are also worried about tugging too hard and hurting or even damaging their partner. To ensure your grip is tight enough to suit their tastes, ask them to show you what they love, by placing their hand over yours and squeezing until it feels pleasing.