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Before you start, it's important to know how to use a vibrator in the best possible way. It's not always as simple as picking any old toy, charging it and pressing the on button.

So if you've never bought one before, how do you know which type to go for?  Here's how to use a vibrator properly.

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1. Understand it’s completely normal

The first thing to understand is that sex toys are now a normal part of many couples’ sexual routines. Using a vibe doesn't mean your sex life is rubbish, so banishing your partner's fear of incompetence should be the first item on your list. Using a vibrator is a fun way of reaffirming your mutual trust, making you more open-minded, intimate and confident with each other's bodies.

2. Finding the right one

Everyone is different and you need to find a vibe that works for your body. There are all sorts that you can choose from and it can be kind of intimidating if you're not sure where to start. You can, however, start with a bullet vibrator - these are small, powerful vibrators primarily used for clitoral stimulation. Because of their petite size and easy-to-use shape, bullet vibes are a great choice for a first-time sex toy.

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3. Figure out what feels good for you

You can do this by just picking your desired vibration technique and speed, applying some lube to make things nice and slippery, then move the vibe around the clitoris and labia until you find the place and method of stimulation that feels the best. That's a basic, but enjoyable path to orgasming with a vibrator.