Fingering a girl can bring a whole new level of pleasure to oral sex, but it’s also easy to get it all wrong.
Here’s how to finger a girl while you go down on her.
1. Using your hands
Hands and fingers are the most popular too for oral sex for both men and women. There are times when using our hands can give our mouths a bit of a break and bring our partner to orgasm that much faster. There are other times when using our hands just gets in the way. Be sure to pay attention to your partner when doing each of these moves and assess her reaction – if she loves it, great, you can keep going. But if she seems to be shrinking away, try another hand technique or take the hand away altogether.
2. Fingering her into oblivion
There are so many more ways to pleasure your partner with your finger inside her and your tongue outside her. Be careful of just sticking your finger inside her vaginal opening though. Make sure she is wet. You should almost never have to use lubricant because you will have sufficiently warmed your partner up first and performed some cunnilingus on her already, however, we know that some ladies are drier than others and may require lubricant. If you’re using a condom, finger cot, or latex gloves you’ll need to use a water-based lubricant.
3. Fingering during oral sex
Slide your finger in and out of her slowly and gently. You can keep your finger straight or you can put a bit of a bend in it if you like to help reach the G Spot. You can also use your finger to press on the walls of her vaginal canal or to go deep inside, depending on how your lady likes it. One of the most popular fingering moves is to slide the tip of your finger in and out of her vaginal canal – you can even move your fingertips in circles to trace the outer rim of her vagina. Ladies love this because the first inch or so of the vagina is jam-packed with pleasure inducing nerves.
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4. The g-spot pleasure
Contrary to popular belief, the g-spot is not as difficult as many people think. It is nothing more than a small dime-to-quarter-sized bundle of nerves about two inches inside of the vaginal canal. Generally, it is on the top. Surprisingly, a woman can experience an orgasm from G Spot stimulation alone; however, the feeling of this type of orgasm differs greatly from a clitoral orgasm. Place the index finger of your right hand inside her vaginal canal with your palm up. You can also use your middle finger if you like. Then gently make a "come here" motion with your finger. That should pretty much do it.
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