Being pressured into doing anything is totally annoying.
Definitely, there will be partners out there who respect your choices and decisions, but there also might be some crappy people who get a little selfish when it comes to sex. It’s easy to be pressured into sex without even realizing. The worst part is realizing it after the fact and feeling regretful or ashamed. But if you think these things are happening to you, this might be a sign you’re being pressured into sex.
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This sucks, but you might be feeling guilty into wanting to sex, even if you really don't want to do it. If you say no, then your partner seems sad out or complains, then you say yes, you could subconsciously be trying to please them, instead of listening to what you really want.
If you say no, you mean no. It does not give your partner the right to try and say "but I'm horny!" since that is unfair and manipulative. If you say no and your partner tries to proceed anyway, it's unhealthy. If they respect you, they will not want to pressure you.
If your friends are having sex, that doesn't mean that you are supposed to be doing it too. Take your time doing anything like that, and don't ever compare your sex life to someone else's.
Just because you've had sex with someone before, doesn't mean you have to have sex with them again even if they are your partner. If you haven't had sex in a certain amount of days or weeks and your partner insists that they deserve sex, then you are totally being pressured into it.