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Oral Sex 5 common cunnilingus fears that you shouldn’t worry about

People with vaginas are more likely to be self-conscious about their bits during cunnilingus.

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Cunnilingus.

(Healthista)

It’s absolutely normal to feel uneasy about your body to some extent. Whether you have a penis or a vagina or whatever else down there, it’s easy to feel like you don’t match up, like you’re too hairy, like you’re too big in places or too small in others.

This can be your worse fear when it comes to things like oral sex when your partner has to really get up close and personal with whatever you’ve got going on down there.

Read on to see common cunnilingus fears that you shouldn’t worry about.

1. Tasting good down there

The D doesn't taste like lollipops, and your vagina doesn't taste like a nectarine. You taste like...fluids. Salty, maybe a little musky, maybe a little sweet, but certainly not like honey. Nobody's vagina tastes like honey. You might not taste great, but your partner isn't putting their mouth on your vagina because it tastes good, remember that.

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2. Vaginal discharge

Chances are unless your partner has a vagina themselves, they won't be able to differentiate between you being wet because you're turned on or you being wet because you're just experiencing vaginal discharge. But besides that, it takes just a few seconds to excuse yourself to "freshen up" if you just want to clean up a bit down there before getting down to business.

3. Not getting off in, like, two minutes

It can take a while to have an orgasm through cunnilingus. So you're not a weirdo if it's taking a while for things to get going down there. Plus, it might feel like it's taking forever on your end if you're worried about taking too long; it might not be as long as you think, and maybe your partner doesn't mind. If your partner is tired, they'll likely take a break before getting back to business. Don't feel guilty, they signed up for this!

4. Pubic hair

It's easy to get to all the nooks and crannies of your vag and other private parts without a bunch of hair in the way. Hair can just feel weird on the tongue and not everyone enjoys it; there are plenty of people who don't like to perform a blowjob on somebody who has jungle pubes. But everyone is different, so don't assume that your partner will be turned off by oral just because you aren't bare like a doll down there.

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5. Hurting your partner's feelings if something doesn't feel good

You could have a very dedicated partner who really wants to perform oral sex on you and they could still need a little nudge in the right direction. Be gentle but firm about what feels good and what doesn't. If your partner is obsessed with, like, tonguing your labia and you really aren't getting anything out of that, gently direct them toward your clitoris or something.