No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make oral sex feel as good as possible.

Below are some tips to make that happen and even better.

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1. Eye contact

Look up at him just as you're about to take his penis as far into your mouth as you can then maintain eye contact for a few strokes or the entire time. This move is super intimate, as extended eye contact causes a release of oxytocin, the bonding hormone, in both of you.

2. Tease him

Foreplay can mean the difference between a standard oral sex experience and the best time ever. To up the excitement, start by licking, blowing, stroking, and kissing everything but his penis. Wait until he’s panting, and practically begging for it. It’ll be more than worth the wait.

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3. Being clear about your boundaries

If you’re just not into a particular kind of oral sex, don’t be afraid to say so. Be mindful of what your body is comfortable doing. And listen to your body as you’re giving. Make it a point to talk through your boundaries before, during, and after sex.

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