Sex is meant to be enjoyed by couples but we dare say that some men are not concerned about their women's sexual satisfaction.
We have pointed out several times that for some men, especially in these parts, sex is all about them getting an erection and jumping on the suffering woman and once they are done, they are tuned off, even when the woman is yet to get into second gear.
In the first few years of marriage, you will have noticed that sex was something you seemed not to get enough of but as the years go by, you tend to relegate it to the background, the frequency dropping drastically, not knowing that it should still be paramount in keeping your marriage going.
Enjoying a healthy sex life is one of the great joys in life. Knowing intimacy could be a boon for your long-term health as well makes it that much more pleasurable.
You must never let sex become routine. It's easier than you think; you just have to add different styles of lovemaking to your repertoire, and have a woman who's willing to go the distance.
Try out these five types of sex to put back the spark into your marriage
Chances are that your first few sexual encounters with your woman will revolve around seduction. In other words, you're going to do your damndest to charm her right into your bed.
Look deep into her eyes and sensualize the conversation in order to seduce her mind and get the sexual energy between you flowing.
Once you have her eating out of the palm of your hand, take her in your arms and kiss her. Lead her into the bedroom and slowly undress her.
Lay her down and make love to her while keeping eye contact. Maintain a constant, steady pace and refrain from using too many sound effects. After all, you're the strong, silent type tonight.
This type of set-up is also good for when you've been together for a while and want to feel like the stud that you are, and want to remind her of that too.
This type of sex is good for when you're both relaxed and not pressed for time, such as during a weekend getaway or locked up in your room all day. It's time to enjoy the fact that neither of you has anything to do but enjoy each other's bodies.
Here's your chance to give her what she wants: a romantic setting and seemingly endless foreplay, caress all of her erogenous zones, including her thighs, butt, back, neck, soles of her feet, and breasts.
The ensuing sex should be slow and rhythmic, and allow both parties to enjoy every sensation to its fullest. Basically, it should feel like it's going in slow motion.
Other times, you are just so hot for each other that prolonging foreplay just seems like agony, like when you're at a club and get incredibly turned on, but have to wait until you get home. Once you unlock that front door, it's time for animalistic sex.
Grab her and kiss her hard, and rip each other's clothes off; it doesn't even matter if some of them stay on. Go ahead and do it doggy style on the living room floor, or prop her up on the kitchen counter if you so desire. Do it fast and hard. Grab her hair by the roots, yell if you feel like it; just be sure to check your inhibitions at the door.
Perhaps you were away on business and haven't been home for weeks, or maybe you had a huge fight and need to make up; the point is, you're burning with desire and you want to devour each other.
The resulting sex should be intense and deeply felt. Hold on to her body and make love to her like she's all the woman you could ever want or need.
This one is great if you are pressed for time, stressed out, or in an unusual location that you really shouldn't be having sex in, such as in your office, or on a somewhat secluded beach.
This one's quick and to the point; you want an orgasm and you want it now.
As long as you and your woman have compatible sex drives and a sense of adventure when it comes to your sexual escapades, you should be able to lead a mutually fulfilling sex life and prevent the flame from dying. Just remember to switch it up and spice it up.