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Pulse Nigeria Poll Readers want Ricky to report his brother's sexual harassment

37% of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters are all in agreement that a young man whose brother's fiancee has been harassing sexually, should report to the parents.

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This is one confused man

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Naomi Dachung: (Jos, Nigeria):

"Don't pay back evil with the good that your brother has done to you all these while because of one thing.

If you are a Christian, the bible tells us that we should flee from evil, if you do not flee from that lady, she will capture you one day. Tell the lady that you would report her to your brother if she does not stop what she is doing and if she insists, I suggest you inform your brother.

Or better still, you can leave the house and get an apartment for yourself if possible.

It is better you start telling your brother the truth than to allow her to start telling lies to your brother and do you know what your brother will believe?

The first lies than the truth you will come to tell after. Act fast, if not something terrible may happen.

Don't have sex with her, let your hands be clean in this matter and pray to God Almighty to help you overcome this temptation in Jesus Name, amen."

This admonition came from Naomi Dachung, all the way from Jos, Plateau State. It is remarkable that majority of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters advised Ricky to tell either his brother or their parents that Barbara has been harassing him sexually.

Read the letter that brought the advice to the fore:

"My name is Ricky and I am a 21-year-old undergraduate of a private university in Nigeria. My parents live in our village in the eastern part of the country, so I live with my stepbrother in Lagos anytime I am on holidays. He is the one who sponsors my education and despite the fact that we are not of the same mother, brother IK has been so nice to me and my two younger sisters.

He has never shown any discrimination towards us. The fact that his mother died when he and his three siblings were very young and he grew up with my mother, has made us bond a lot and he has never told anyone that we are not of the same mother.

But the only fly in the ointment seem to be brother IK's fiance, who wants to break that bond by all means. Barbara has been making life difficult for me especially whenever brother IK is out of town which is quite often due to the nature of his job.

IK could travel out of the country at short notice and could be away for three months at a stretch and Barbara sees this as the perfect opportunity to get me to be sleeping with her. Initially, she started with small seductive signs, like putting on skimpy dresses whenever we were alone, or complimenting my masculine looks, to asking me what I do to my girlfriends on bed.

She even went as far as telling me how much she loves sex and how my brother's constant absence from home has been making her horny and sex starved. Then one particularly cold night, she came into my room wearing a night gown with practically nothing underneath. She told me she was scared of sleeping alone in their room and that she needed a man to make love to her.

I just about managed to get out of the room that night. Since then, she has been pulling all sorts of stunts to get me to sleep with her but so far, I have staved her off. Some of my friends that I have confided in have urged me to go ahead and sleep with her since she is not yet married to my brother but my conscience would not let me do it.

Some however, have told me to report the sexual harassment to my brother but I do not want to create problems for them. And again, it would be my word against hers as my brother may not believe me.

I am really worried because she has been coming on so strong.


The teaser for the day was:

What would you do if your brother's fiancee wants to have sex with you?

How Nigeria voted:

I will report her to my brother - 20%

I will politely refuse - 22%

I will report her to our parents - 37%

I will give it to her - 13%

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