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Pulse Nigeria Poll Readers say they will report a blackmailing ex to the police

71% of Pulse Nigeria Poll readers say they will report a blackmailing ex to the police for threatening to expose their nude photos.

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This worried woman is being blackmailed (Illustration) play

This worried woman is being blackmailed (Illustration)

(Motherhood In Style)

Why would a man want to blackmail a traumatized married woman who fell into his hands when she was at her vulnerable best? Well, that is what a reader, Amanda is going through after her husband's treachery made her a cheap prey for Nnamdi, a gigolo, who is now blackmailing her with the nude photos he took of her.

Read her letter here:

"My name is Amanda and I am 46-years-old. I have been happily married for 20 years with four lovely children but it seems just one moment of madness is threatening to tear my marriage apart.

My husband, Kayode, has been very loving for me and the children but like most men, he has one weakness and that is women. Kayode has been into several affairs while we are married and when I find out most of them, he would beg me to forgive him and I have always done so.

But about three years ago, Kayode did the one that almost made me to commit suicide. He got one of my close friends, Rita, pregnant and insisted on her having the child. I was mad and attacked him with everything I had but he stood his ground.

Out of anger, I packed some of my things and moved in with another of my friends, Kate, a single mother who lived alone in her mansion in Lekki.

Kate had lots of men at her beck and call, some young enough to be her children. In my desperation, I allowed Kate to convince me to have affairs so as to get back at Kayode, and that was how I met Nnamdi, a 26-year-old man.

Little did I know that Nnamdi and many of the young men that milled around Kate and her other friends were paid gigolos until he decided to hit me. I had sex with him a few times and in my vulnerability, I even allowed him to take photos of me nude and very uncompromising positions.

But then, I came back to my senses and decided to end the madness and go back home to my family.

But the boy and even my friend Kate, have resorted to making life a living hell for me. They have been blackmailing me out of huge sums of money or else they would release the photos on social media and send them to my husband and children.

I will be dead if they ever carry out that threat but knowing Nnamdi for the animal he is, I dread what he can do the moment I do not have any money to give him.

He wants me to give him a whopping N50 million between now and the end of May or he would carry out his threat.

I am in real trouble and in need of serious advice.


What would you do if your ex is blackmailing you with your nude photos?

How Nigeria voted:

71% - I will report him/her to the police

9% - I will pay him/her off

20% - I will send assassins after him/her

How would you vote here?

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