Readers say they will help a spouse who is experiencing sexual problems

isaac dachen

October 12, 2016 10:26 AM

47% of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters say they will help a spouse overcome their sexual inadequacies while 31% say they will get sex outside.

A sex starved wife is an unhappy woman

Before now, they had a very vibrant sex pattern but everything changed when her husband, Godwin, seemed to get weaker and weaker when it comes to sex.

Read her story here:

"My name is Gloria, a 36-year-old married woman with a four-year-old daughter. I have been married for five years now but I am no more enjoying my marriage as my husband, Godwin, has suddenly become a one-minute-man when it comes to sex.

The surprising thing is that Godwin is just a year older than I am but he is experiencing impotency at this age and all efforts to find a solution to it has failed.

Before we got married and the first two years, sex seemed to be the first thing on Godwin's mind and we had the best and explosive sex. But after my baby came, the frequency reduced but we were still getting satisfaction whenever we decided to have sex.

But in the past two years, our sex life has become so pathetic that at times, I feel so frustrated and tempted to get a sex partner outside to satisfy me.

The problem started with my husband having weak erections that could not be sustained for more than two minutes to not having erections at all for days. I would do everything I could to help him get an erection to no effect.

At times, when he gets erect after almost 20 minutes of effort and I prime myself for him to enter me, the manhood would just go flat and I would be left frustrated.

We have tried creams, medicine, and prayers to no avail. I quite pity my husband and I do not want to hurt him but I am still young and sexually vibrant and no one should tell me that I do not need sex at my age.

Gloria."

The teaser for the week was:

What would you do if your husband cannot satisfy you in bed?

How Nigeria voted:

I would get a sex partner to satisfy me - 31%

I will get a vibrator to satisfy myself - 22%

I will help him in any way I can - 47%

How would you vote here?

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