Readers say they will divorce a gay partner

isaac

August 20, 2015 10:50 AM

68% of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters say they will divorce a partner who engages in gay sex.

Crying woman

A Pulse reader, Hannah, caught her husband red handed having gay sex with another man on their matrimonial bed and she is confused on what to do.

Her letter in part reads:

"Dear Pulse,

My name is Hannah. I have been married for four years now with a girl to show for it but presently, I have a disturbing problem that could tear my marriage apart. My husband, Uzor, used to be the best man any woman can ever hope to live with for the rest of her life.

But that was before his business ran aground after the Nigerian Customs seized his goods at the Port and since then, life has been very difficult for us, with me being the bread winner of the family from my little trade business. It got so bad that he even attempted suicide once but for the grace of God.

Then a friend of his linked him up to a guy based in China who promised to help him start up all over again. I did not know the terms of their business partnership but when the man came into the country, things seemed to pick up but that also came with Uzor's change in attitude.

He had brought the guy home to introduce him and at first look, I found something odd with the man. He behaved and acted in an effeminate sort of way but since he was going to help my husband, I did not attach anything to it.

Uzor started keeping late nights, lost interest in sex and seemed to always be in the company of the man. I thought he was having affairs with some woman but since I had no evidence, I could not confront him.

You can then imagine my surprise when I came home unexpectedly from the shop to catch my husband with the man right on our matrimonial bed having homosexual sex.

I was so shocked that I passed out and when I came to, I was in the hospital. Instead of Uzor being sober and asking for forgiveness, he has even told me I have to accept the fact of what i saw as the man is the key to his breakthrough or I should pack out of his house."

Pulse Nigeria Poll then went to town to sample the opinion of our readers with this poll:

Would you divorce your spouse if you caught him/her engaging in gay sex?

How Nigeria voted:

68% - Yes, that will be the end of the marriage

35% - No, I will pray for him/her to change

How will you vote?

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