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Pulse Nigeria Poll Readers say they will confront a friend's spouse they caught cheating

50% of Pulse Nigeria Poll voters say if they catch a friend's spouse cheating, they would call the person to order.

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This confused man needs advice

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A reader, Andy, is facing a dilemma after he caught his best friend's fiancée with another man in a hotel barely three weeks to their wedding. He is worried and wants to know if he should tell his friend.

Read his letter here:

"My name is Andy and I have something that has been bugging my mind to share with your readers, hoping that I will get a good piece of advice.

My best friend, Peter, is supposed to get married next weekend to his fiancee, Jennifer but the lady is still sleeping with other men. I caught her red handed in a hotel three weeks ago and I am not happy about that at all. Peter has been that one-woman man and I can say he has never cheated on Jennifer since the day he proposed to her.

Some may wonder how I got to know this or if I can vouch for him and I dare say I can swear that Peter has never cheated. You also know that men do talk about their sexual escapades.

So that day, I had gone to visit with friend of mine in another area of Lagos and in the evening, we went to a hotel for some drinks. Sometime around 8pm, I was shocked when I looked up and saw Jennifer coming into the hotel with a man I had never seen before.

I prayed she would not see me, while trying to find out what she was doing in the hotel with another man. The man led her to the reception and actually booked a room for the night.

I got to realise this after they went into the room and went to verify from the receptionist. The guy told me that they had booked into a room and that it was not the first time the man has been bringing her to the hotel.

Since then, I have lost all respect I had for her and I find it difficult to hide my disdain when we are together and she puts up an holier-than-thou attitude.

I don't know if I should tell Peter what I discovered or allow him to go ahead and marry her, knowing that she would still be sleeping with other men,


The teaser for the day was:

Would you tell your friend you caught his/her fiance/fiancee with another person?

40% - Yes, I will let the person know

10% - No, I will not be the one to break their union

8% - I will tell them after the wedding

50% -  I will call the person and tell him/her to desist from doing that

How would you vote here?

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