Readers say it is better to wait till marriage before sex

isaac

September 21, 2015 10:20 AM

A whopping 83% of readers believe it is best to wait till marriage before having sex.

This confused woman needs advice

A Pulse reader who is worried about her fiancés' sexual ability and would want to experiment before marriage sent it this letter:

"I am in love with a 35-year-old man and we hope to get married next year but the problem is that he is the church type who is so engrossed with the injunction of no sex before marriage.

I am the exact opposite as I have never pretended to be prude or a virgin. I am a modern girl and I believe it is best to know if the man you want to spend the rest of your life is sexually active or not.

I would not want to be frustrated when I get married and cheat on my husband. I want to be sure he can satisfy me sexually but he would not budge. I have tried everything to have him make love to me but he keeps maintaining his stance.

We have been dating for over a year now and it is so frustrating that I do not know my man in bed.

I get tempted to seek sex from other men but I had made a vow that once I meet a man who wants to get married to me, I would never cheat on him.

But now it is becoming so frustrating. What do I do?"

We put this poser up for readers to vote:

Is it wise to wait till marriage before having sex?

How Nigeria voted:

83% - Yes, it gives the marriage virtue

17% - No, you must know the sexual performance of your spouse

How would you vote here?

isaac