Readers believe a woman whose husband's friend slept with should tell him

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October 5, 2015 9:43 AM

Pulse Nigeria Poll voters are in agreement that it is better for a woman whose husband's friend had sex with to tell the husband.

Worried woman

A troubled reader, Uloma Onyekachi, sent in a letter last week seeking advice from other readers on what she should do after her husband's best friend tricked her into sleeping with him.

Part of her letter read:

"My name is Uloma Onyekachi and I have been married for eight years with two adorable children.

My husband, , has always been a serial womanizer and never cared how I felt about his philandering. I have lost count of the number of times I have found condoms in his trouser pockets and even under our bed anytime I come back from a journey, which means he even brings his women into our matrimonial home.

I have borne all the insults with the calmness of a Godly woman while praying for him to change but he kept at it and the stroke that broke the camel's back came when he got a young lady in our church pregnant.

The pain was so much that I had to park out of our home and went to stay with my sister. After a while, he started sending his friends and relatives to beg me, including his best friend, .

Marcel had come to my sister's place when she had gone to work and while pleading with me to go back home, he began complimenting me, telling me things my husband had not told me in years.

I found myself responding to his words and before I knew what was going on, Marcel took advantage of my broken heart and I found him on me, having sex with me.

When he was through, I was so ashamed of myself and I have not been able to tell how it happened.

I have confided in my sister and after scolding me, advised me to open up to my husband but I am afraid what the outcome would be.

Please what should I do?"

A whopping 64% of readers believe it is right for her to confess to her husband as the fake friend could turn to blackmailing her and even tell her husband in the process.

The poser for the Pulse Nigeria Poll was:

Should a woman who had sex with her husband's friend confess to the husband?

How Nigeria voted?

64% - Yes, it is better for her to confess

36% - No, what the eyes does not see does not hurt

How would you vote here?

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