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Morning Teaser 'My wife calls her ex-boyfriend's name during sex'

After nurturing Tochi back to life from a devastating heartbreak, Ralph wants to give up as she finds it difficult to forget her ex-boyfriend.

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This is a very depressed man (Illustration)

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"Dear Pulse,

My name is Ralph, a 36-year-old man working in Lagos. I got married to Tochi in December of 2016 but I don't think I can continue with the marriage again because she is not what I expected when we got married.

When I met Tochi, she was coming out of a bad relationship that almost made her commit suicide because the man, Victor, had hurt her so much. He was abuse, often beating her to stupor and on top of that, he cheated on her with her close friends.

Tochi was a wreck when I met her and because of the love I had for her from day one, I took my time to nurture her back to life, being very careful never to hurt her or do anything that would make her reflect on her past.

At times, I had to practically nurse her like a baby because she was prone to relapsing into her shell and whenever she did that, I had to be very patient with her to get her to come back to herself.

Her parents, siblings, and friends all praised my efforts and patience and kept encouraging me to stay by her.

It took me close to two years of patient work before Tochi agreed to go into a relationship with me and it was just natural for me to propose marriage to her.

But that marriage is on the rock right now because my wife seems not to have gotten over the man ho shattered her heart.

It happened on our wedding night as we were making love for the first time when she screamed the name of her ex-boyfriend repeatedly. I was shocked and naturally, my manhood became placid as I looked at her in surprise.

Later, she apologized and begged for forgiveness, promising she would do everything to get the guy out of her mind. But instead, she has not stopped mentioning his name whenever we have sex and even in her sleep.

This has caused so much pain and distress for me especially when she confessed that she still loves the guy and that she finds it difficult to forget him.

The other day, she even told me that if had her way, she would go back to Victor regardless of what he did to her.

I feel used, stupid and I think the best thing is for me to let her go since she has shown she cannot be truly happy with me.


Dear readers, after going through Ralph heartbreaking story on Morning Teaser today, what do you think he should do with the situation he has found himself in?

What do you think Ralph should do in this situation?»

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