Would you welcome your spouse's ex into your home?

isaac

June 19, 2015 9:54 AM

Would you agree to your spouse's ex moving into your house while he/she tries to get an accommodation?

Worried woman

"Dear Pulse,

My name is Julie Anderson. I got married two years ago to a man who means the world to me. We have always lived an open life where we do not hide anything from each other but everything seems to be changing for us. The reason for this is the fact that my husband's is creeping back into his life and he is not doing anything to keep her away.

He once told me that she was his first true love and he has found it hard to forget her, something I felt he will let go with time.

Two weeks ago, he told me that the lady who works in Enugu has been transferred to Lagos and she will take the visitor's room in our house while she works at getting an apartment.

At first, I threatened fire and brimstone if the lady should come and stay with us but he begged and promised that her stay will only be for a while. He also made it sound as if that is the least he could do to help her.

The lady is due in town next week and my fear is growing by the day as my husband seems to be excited about her coming and spends time redecorating the guest room for her. I smell a fish and I feel the two of them could be up to something when she comes.

What can I do?

Julie,

Lagos."

Dear readers, on Morning Teaser today, we ask: would you welcome your spouse's ex into your home?

isaac