Would you cheat on your spouse if sex is bad?

isaac

March 23, 2015 9:09 AM

A troubled Pulse reader wants advice on what to do as sex with his wife is becoming a bore. Do you think he should cheat on her?

What advice do you have for confused Gordon?

"Dear Pulse,

My name is Gordon and I have been married to a woman I love so much for eight years now. We have two wonderful kids that mean the world to me.

But there is an issue that is threatening to tear my marriage apart and if care is not taken, I may be forced to engage in something I had vowed never to.

The problem here is that with my wife has become non-existent and in the past three years, it has been frustrating, to say the least.

When we got married newly, we had a good sex life though it was not out of this world. But after our second child, it has become practically a bore for me. My wife's sexual libido has fallen so low that she can stay for four months without sex and is not bothered.

Even when she agrees to make love, she does not even show any feelings. It is as if she is doing me a favour.

She complains of tiredness, headache, pains and every imaginable excuses for staying away from having sex with me.

Now she has moved into the guest bedroom and is making life so difficult for me and I am tempted to get myself another woman who will satisfy my sexual needs.

I have talked with her, had her friends talk to her and even tried therapy but they are not working.

Friends say I should engage in extra-marital affairs but I want to ear from your readers first.

Gordon,

Lagos."

Dear readers, on Morning Teaser today, what advice would you give to Gordon?

isaac