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Morning Teaser 'My husband only gets aroused by watching other men sleep with me'

This is quite strange: why would a man pay men to sleep with his wife while he watches? This is the situation Funke has found herself in.

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This is one confused woman (Illustration)

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"Dear Pulse,

My name is Olufunke, a 38-year-old married woman with three children. I am married to a 50-year-old Igbo man who only gets sexually aroused by watching a man have sex with me. We have been married for 12 years and I am no longer finding his weird sexual fantasy funny.

I know many readers will think what I am saying is made up and hard to believe. In truth, I will feel the same way as them. Even when I confide in friends, many find it difficult to believe but it is happening to me in real life.

My husband was born and bred in the United States and only relocated to Nigeria 15 years ago, where we met and got married. In the beginning, he was so loving and provided everything a woman would need but when he brought up the idea of watching other men sleep with me, I found it repulsive but that brought a serious quarrel between us and he kept at it till I gave in.

In truth, I should not have agreed then but I felt that was the only way to keep my marriage together, thinking it would be a one off. But after that first time, it became a regular thing and anytime I refused, he would either beat me up or threaten to divorce me, and I always ended up doing it to make him happy.

My husband would encourage me to have boyfriends and even bring them home to have sex with me, after which he would pay the men and give me huge sums of money. Even when he is not around, he would want me to record any of such sex scenes and play them for him when he comes back.

After such episodes, he would be so nice and loving, until the next session. He would even introduce me to men and has even installed a CCTV in our bedroom where he would watch me having sex with other men over and over again.

I am tired of this unnatural way of life and want out but he has threatened to kill me if I ever leave him. I think my husband is possessed but he has refused to seek for spiritual help.


Dear readers, on Morning Teaser today, we ask: what do you make of this strange and bizarre marriage?

What do you think is wrong with this couple?»

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