'My fiance says no sex, no marriage'

isaac dachen

December 24, 2015 9:19 AM

Is there really anything wrong in pre-marital sex?

A really sad woman

"Dear Pulse,

My name is , a 29-year-old lady. I live and work in Lagos. I am in a dilemma which is really causing me sleepless nights. I am a born again Christian and I had vowed that I wouldtill my wedding night.

I am not saying I am a virgin but after playing the field for years and seeing that there is nothing to gain from it, I gave my life to Christ and for the past three years, I have been keeping to my vows.

I met in church and after courting for a year, he proposed to marry me but he has refused to give me a ring or see make moves for our wedding because he says after waiting for over one year and after promising to marry me, he needs to confirm my sexually. He says he needs to know if I will be able to satisfy him in bed. He has even vowed to break up the relationship if I refuse to allow him to sleep with me.

This was not what we agreed on and I do not want to offend God. At the same time, I do not want to lose my man because I am not growing younger and getting a man to settle down with is not as easy as many people think.

Precious,

Lagos."

Dear readers, on Morning Teaser today, what do you think Precious should do?

isaac dachen