'I love my wife but I can't stop sleeping around'

isaac dachen

May 17, 2016 10:06 AM

What would be your advice for a man who is battling sexual pervasion?

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I am not proud of this habit but I realise I have a problem and I sure do need help.

I don't know how my addiction with women started but I realised that all through my growing up days, I had this constant urge to have sex with any girl I met and many of them always fell for my charms and I bedded so many of them that I lost count.

In school, I was notorious for changing women at will and even with my reputation, many of them still ran after me.

When I graduated and got a very good job with the help of my dad's friend, the addiction increased and the women were throwing themselves at me. Both single and married women became mere tools in my hands and I slept with each and everyone of them.

My family was getting worried that I would not be able to settle down as I was not able to keep a steady relationship but when I met Yemi, I knew I had met my wife. I vowed never to go back to my old ways after we got married.

But even after our marriage, I have been able to put a stop to sleeping around as I keep looking out for different women. Even some of my exes have come back and we have continued with our ways, even though they know I am married.

This lifestyle is taking a toll on me financially, emotionally and I want to stop but I just can't help myself.

Please can anyone help me out?

Bayo."

Dear readers, on today, we want you to tell this troubled young man what he should do to save himself from this destructive habit.

isaac dachen